Palimony: A More Relevant Ideal For Today's Modern Relationships.

In today's contemporary world, it is common for men and women to cohabit with their romantic partner without contemplation of marriage.  Many relationships mimic a marriage without the legal tie. 

When a marriage ends, all of the assets and debts of each spouse must be distributed pursuant to the principle of "equitable distribution".  Recognizing that it costs more for two people to live separately than it does to live together, the goal in New Jersey is to equitably distribute the wealth and debt accumulated between the parties during the marriage so as to leave each party reasonably capable of maintaining a similar lifestyle after the marriage ends.  Generally, each spouse has an equitable interest in the assets (and debts) of the other spouse, and upon divorce, the court must determine the value of that interest in order to carry out the equitable distribution scheme.

In the absence of marriage, there is no right or "equitable interest" in the assets of the other partner.  Nor is there any equitable obligation to the debts in the name of the other partner.  Likewise, there is no entitlement for support even if one partner became financially dependent on the other during a long term period of cohabitation.  The only way to guarantee some financial security in the event of a breakup is to enter into a written palimony agreement.  Palimony refers to financial support from one person to another when a long-term, non-marital relationship ends.  It is generally given to a person who became financially dependent on the other person, relying on express or implied promises that his or her significant other would support him or her financially for the rest of their lives. Prior to 2010, claims for palimony in New Jersey were permitted when a promise of lifetime support was broken.  Since 2010 however, New Jersey law provides that palimony agreements are only enforceable if the couple creates a written agreement with an attorney. 

In the absence of a written palimony agreement, issues regarding the division of property such as a home or car can be complicated if the property was purchased in both names.   An action for partition may be necessary.  If a couple also has children, all issues will likely be determined in the family court system. 

If you and your partner cohabit but elect not to enter into marriage, make sure you understand the potential financial ramifications of the decisions you  make as a familial unit.  There is nothing wrong with proactively securing your future financial rights by way of a written palimony agreement.

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Stephanie

Alimony Reform: One Year Later

On September 10, 2014, exactly one year ago today, New Jersey's Alimony statute was amended.  There were two big changes; the first was the elimination of "permanent" alimony to what is now termed "open durational" alimony.  The second big change was the addition of a provision that alimony may be suspended or even terminated in the event the payee cohabits with another person.

In ruling on a request for alimony, the court will review and analyze at least fourteen different factors.  One of the factors is the length of the marriage.  For any marriage less than twenty (20) years in duration, the total duration of alimony shall not, except in exceptional circumstances, exceed the length of the marriage.  Many people mistake this to mean, for example, that a marriage of 7 years equals 7 years of alimony.  In fact, what the statute says is that alimony shall not exceed 7 years, and it could be less.  For marriages 20 years and over, it becomes more complicated.  Most practitioners will counsel their client to expect to pay alimony for at least 20 years; maybe longer.  Open durational alimony does not have a specific end date.  Indeed, it could very well be permanent.

The cohabitation revision was a much applauded change.  Most people know someone who tells their horror story of continuing to pay alimony to their ex-spouse while the ex has entered into a new relationship. The typical story line involves the ex living with their new love, displaying their affection for one another to the world, and presenting themselves as a much in-love happy pair.  Yet, they stop short of  marriage in order to keep the alimony paycheck rolling in.  Under the Alimony Reform Act, cohabitation is much more than a spring fling.  There are seven different factors that a court will evaluate in determining whether cohabitation is occurring; among them is whether the couple has intertwined their finances, shares household chores, and any indicia of a "mutually supportive intimate personal relationship".  A finding of cohabitation can result in the termination, or at least suspension, of the alimony obligation.

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Stephanie